Find Your Voice and stories in your relationships with yourself and loved ones.

Social justice-oriented therapy services for queer individuals and couples who desire to better understand themselves, reconnect, re-engage, and show up more authentically in their relationships with their loved ones.

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You feel like you are living up to someone else’s expectations.

And that forces you to put the life, the relationship, the identity you want for yourself on the back burner. Whether it is your cultural or familial heterosexual expectation or your other intersectional identities that make it challenging for you to not only come to terms with but also celebrate who you are. You have tried to push away your inner feelings or who you feel like you are inside because of your parent's expectations or because you are feeling unsafe to explore your queer or other identities due to other societal or religious expectations.

Perhaps, you did not know that you would feel so disconnected from your partner or you would constantly fight when you first got together.

You try to pursue your partner in hopes that things will change, but the vicious cycles of disconnection and hopelessness make you wonder how you got here or how you can continue to move forward in your relationship. You have tried to change your relationship, but it just results in more conflicts and disconnection that make you feel hopeless.

I’m glad you are here.

Hi, I’m Dr. Wonbin.

I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist [LMFT 145917 CA/LF61510365 WA] who has over 8 years of experience in working with queer relationships and BIPOC individuals. I am here to help you find your voice and your preferred life instead of continuing to live up to someone else’s dreams or expectations through individual therapy and help you detect the vicious cycles that you and your partner have been in for a long time and find new ways to reconnect and re-engage in your relationship(s) through relationship therapy with me.

I specialize in working with queer and questioning individuals (epecially those of color) who have not actualized their queer identities in their lives and relationships. I help people deconstruct and unlearn the heterosexual conditioning and religious/cultural oppression so that they can taste the freedom to be exactly who they are.
I also specialize in working with queer couples, interracial/intercultural couples, and Asian American couples who have faced various challenges in communicating needs, connecting through a deeper understanding of each other, and having conflicts due to familial expectations or cultural differences.

Learn more about me.

Queer Couples Therapy

Find the cycles of conflicts and disconnection, grow in your understanding of your partner, and discover how you can re-connect and re-engage in your relationships again.
Therapy for Queer Identity Exploration

Deconstruct and unlearn the heterosexual expectation of the world, and start finding your voice in your unique stories as a queer person living in your unique contexts.
Therapy for Religious Trauma & Shame

You’ve left your religious faith or are considering leaving because you have been hurt by the church or other religious organizations and people in them, and you are not sure where to go from here.
Therapy for Ethical Non-Monogamy

You and your partner are exploring non-monogamy or opening your relationship for the first time. Explore your needs and wants and deeply dive into what non-monogamy can look like in your relationship.
Therapy for Interracial Couples

Explore how your familial and cultural differences are impacting the way you interact with each other and communicate with each other. You and your partner deeply care for and love each other; however, you have difficulty understanding each other’s love language, feeling seen or valued in the relationship, or perhaps being on the same page about your filial duty.
Therapy for Asian Americans

Whether you are an immigrant yourself or a child of immigrants, you might have experienced disconnection from your family - perhaps because of cultural differences or simply because times have changed. You want to understand where you have come from and how our relationships with ourselves and others are shaped by Asian and Asian American intergenerational experiences.