Couples Intensive · Online in CA, WA & FL
You love each other. You're just tired of the same fight.
A 3-hour intensive for queer Asian couples who want real change, fast, without committing to months of weekly sessions.
Maybe this is where you are right now.
- One of you is out to your family. The other isn't. Every holiday turns into a negotiation.
- You keep having the same argument, and you both walk away feeling unseen.
- Your parents' expectations, or your in-laws', have quietly moved into your relationship.
- You're thinking about opening your relationship and don't know how to talk about it safely.
- You want to fix this, but a weekly appointment feels impossible to fit into your lives.
Why an intensive
Three focused hours can do what weeks of 50-minute sessions struggle to.
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Go deep, not in pieces
No stopping just when things open up. You stay with the hard conversation long enough to get through it.
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See your cycle clearly
We map your relationship history and the exact places you get stuck, so the pattern stops running you.
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Leave with a new way to connect
You practice different ways of reaching each other, in the room, before you go back to real life.
How it works
Your three hours, together.
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Your story
How you met, what you've built, and what you've each carried in from your families and cultures.
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Where you get stuck
We name the pain points and the cycle of conflict and disconnection underneath them.
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New ways to reconnect
You try new ways of talking and listening, and leave with a clear next step for your relationship.
Made for queer Asian couples. Not adapted for you as an afterthought.
Coming out & family
When you're at different places with your families.
In-laws & chosen family
Boundaries that respect your culture and protect your relationship.
Interracial couples
Bridging different cultures, languages and expectations.
Opening up
Exploring polyamory with honest, safe communication.
Made for queer Asian couples. Not adapted for you as an afterthought.
Coming out & family
When you're at different places with your families.
In-laws & chosen family
Boundaries that respect your culture and protect your relationship.
Interracial couples
Bridging different cultures, languages and expectations.
Opening up
Exploring polyamory with honest, safe communication.
Your therapist
I'm Dr. Wonbin. I'm queer, Asian and married, so I get it.
I've spent over a decade working with queer Asian and interracial couples. You won't have to explain your culture, your families, or why "just tell them" isn't simple.
PhD in Couple & Family Therapy · Gottman Method Levels I & II · Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy · Sessions in English & 한국어
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Your investment
One 3-hour intensive, online.
For couples anywhere in California, Washington or Florida. Out-of-network: ask about reimbursement through your PPO plan.
$1,350
You don't have to keep having the same fight.
Book online, or text me first with any questions.